Sure some may work out, hit the weights and look strong but they lament that women do judge a book by its cover.In essence, they find this world of online dating extremely limiting because of the limits placed on them by America’s standard of beauty.The vocal minority claims that all we need to do is go on a quest of personal improvement , and magically , these dating woes will just magically disappear.But let’s start by looking at the raw statistics for the interracial dating disparity between Asian men and women, because they don’t lie.One acquaintance told me in wonderment that Chinese women are great in the bedroom – as if I wasn't one – to being casually asked if I’d be interested in a guy “who has been with Chinese girls and likes it”.I’ve been left puzzled by the insensitivity, and the lack of awareness that such comments may cause offence.It’s as if the Chinese are so foreign it doesn't count.
The most prominent one I can recall was Jet Li’s character in the 2000 movie, where he was initially to kiss the late Aaliyah but the ending was re-scripted to a hug when producers feared mainstream American audiences would find the kiss too uncomfortable.But it's subtle, and of course, few would admit to surfing online dating sites for Chinese women, yet when the only girls they date are Chinese, then the probabilities are in their favour.Having said that, I'm surprised at what British men, both young and old, generally get away with when talking about East Asian women (Chinese, Japanese, Korean etc.) as well as South East Asian women (Vietnam, Thailand etc.) I've heard my Caucasian friends recommend to their male, single mates that they should date “nice Chinese girls”, with the added bonus that Chinese women are far more sexually open-minded than Caucasian girls.Statistically, Asian men rank lowest compared to other men when it comes to receiving matches and messages from women on dating sites.While there are different theories for the reasoning, the clients I work with all agree with the premise of not being able to fit the hyper-masculine culture perpetuated by Western society.Data from: Asian American women marry out at 36% versus that of 16% for Asian men. 7% for whites ( M/F) , 25%/12% for blacks ,and 54%/61% for American Indians. In the 2017 study , the intermarriage rates has now changed. These out marriage rates and statistics only give half the picture though; they do not quantify how difficult it is for an Asian man to actually land a white girl.