Men and women alike are both guilty of this, whether they are educated on the fundamentals of courtship or not.People use mind games in order to manipulate their lover into never leaving, or just to keep a fake relationship or attraction a float.There may be times when you feel like you have nothing more to say to each other, especially when both of you speak for hours every day.But if you want to say something interesting, and make her feel more connected to you, here’s what you need to keep in mind.Every day, on Facebook, in the comments section, in the forum, in my inbox…day in and day out I hear variations of the same question: Does he like me? It doesn’t come around every day, so when it does you latch on tightly and feel grateful, and at the same time, afraid. But I also know that love isn’t a magical cure-all and also, love isn’t always enough.The first question when this happens is always: why? And talking about the same old things can get tedious.I started keeping a list of cool and interesting questions to ask a guy a while ago in an attempt to avoid awkward silences and generic conversation.
Don't even eat lunch with such a person." Avoid dating people who have a bad temper. "Now here is a command, dear brothers, given in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ by his authority: Stay away from any Christian who spends his days in laziness and does not follow the ideal of hard work we set up for you." Inner beauty counts the most. "May God who gives patience, steadiness, and encouragement help you to live in complete harmony with each other—each with the attitude of Christ toward the other." Date someone who encourages you and is supportive. "Is there any such thing as Christians cheering each other up? Does it mean anything to you that we are brothers in the Lord, sharing the same Spirit? Then make me truly happy by loving each other, working together with one heart and mind and purpose. For I admit my shameful deed—it haunts me day and night." Second, Ask forgiveness for your sin—God says you can start over again. "Sprinkle me with the cleansing blood and I shall be clean again. And after You have punished me, give me back my joy again.How can a Christian be a partner with one who doesn't believe?" Amos 3:3, NKJV says, "Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?We all at some point in our lives have read magazines, seen movies, or even read specific books written about the game of seduction.Some people have actually gone to great lengths in order to use such knowledge to manipulate people into romance or sex.[Read: Perfect things to talk about in different stages of a relationship] If you know the right things to talk about with your girlfriend, your relationship will bloom into a better romance, and your girlfriend will fall more in love with you too.