In these situations, when a man pulls away, it means that we should let it go. But very often, men pulling away isn’t a bad thing.
Women just think it is – because they think they shouldn’t have this problem in a relationship. Because it’s what they need to do to be true to their natural rhythm and equilibrium in their masculine body.
When oxytocin levels in women increase, they feel bonded and close to the person they are with.
Men’s testosterone levels decrease in response to the added oxytocin and while it’s pleasurable at first, after a short time it causes men stress.
In all likelihood, the chemistry between the two of you couldn’t be better– which is why it’s so confusing that he’s pulling away from your relationship.
If you harp on him and pester him to talk to you and open up he will see you as another source of stress in his life and will pull away even more.This phenomenon is common enough that entire books have been written about it. Dating columnists and relationship gurus have made entire careers out of helping women understand why men pull away from relationships and what to do about it.Here are the six of the most common, sneaky reasons why men pull away: But not the type of chemistry you might be thinking of.And yet this man is still single and typically says that he has never met the right woman. ” Without acceptance that uncertainty is predictable, a man may get stuck in a cycle of serial relationships.This man has not yet made it through the second stage of dating, uncertainty. Instead of testing to see if he can make a woman happy, he questions whether she can give him what he wants … Uncertainty for Her When a woman is uncertain she tends to focus on where the relationship is going. To find reassurance, she makes one of two common mistakes: Either she begins to ask questions about the relationship, or she may try to win him over.If you’ve dated a man at any point in the last 50 years, you most likely understand how awful it feels when a man pulls away.